The eternal question: “I” versus “me”

by Feerless Leeder on April 25, 2009

Now in a previous post, I brutalized the language intentionally. In this post, I will make up for my transgressions.

When trying to determine whether to use “I” or “me” in a sentence, break it apart. Let us take the following sentences:

“Mary and I went to the store.”

versus

“Mary and me went to the store.”

If you’re anything like me, if you say either of these sentences enough times, both will start to sound correct. The most efficient (and accurate) way to determine the correct word to use is to make two simple sentences out of the compound sentence. For example:

“Mary and I went to the store.”

would break out to

“Mary went to the store.”

and

“I went to the store.”

The other sentence when broken out yields this gem:

“Me went to the store.”

Unless you’re a Geico spokesperson, this sentence is quite obviously incorrect.

Once you use this little tidbit a few times, it’ll become second nature to you both when writing and speaking.

{ 2 comments… read them below or add one }

Graham R. Polize 04.27.09 at 12:05 am

Can you please provide some examples of when it IS appropriate to use “me” in a similar sentence? I have my pencil ready to take notes.

Feerless Leeder 04.27.09 at 10:20 pm

Sure. Try:

“Little Jimmy took a field trip to the abattoir with my father and me.”

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